We are newlyweds and my wife is terrified of have sex for the 1st time end in of the aching?

is there anything she can give somebody a lift or use before sex to trade name it less bleeding for her? And also is there blood involved because it is her first time or is that myth? gratefulness It really isn't painful, merely a mild discomfort. She will only bleed if she still have her hymen intact. Very few women do, due to sports, using tampons, etc.
Use KY jelly, and there will be a short time blood, but not much...